This is a build based on https://evertdekker.com/?p=1107, using the identical circuit, but i think using a much more esthetically pleasing as well as robust build.
this makes programming the esp-01 from the arduino software much friendlier, no silly 'solder switches and constantly unplug' madness. The nodemcu setting will do that in software quite nicely all by itself, thank you very much.
I started using the $2.00 usb esp-01 module that you can get everywhere. Then, I gathered 2 12k 1/4 watt resistors, some magnet wire, and 2 BC547 transistors from my parts boxes.
Much thanks to Evert for the inspiration.